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每个人都是在我最快乐最好最乖的时候爱上我，所以我只要耍一些小任性，这些人就会拼命地逃跑。我最需要人在身边的时候总是没有人愿意留下，到处都是落荒而逃的男生。
他们应该在那难得的时刻爱上我，可是他们却选择了离开。所以没有人能够恒久地爱我，除非我能够恒久地快乐。
其实我也不是不能够，我只是不想。为什么一定要在我难过的时候离开我呢？为什么一定要在我最快乐的时候才能够爱我呢？
很不幸地我却在某个人最难过最坏最潦倒的时候爱上了他。所以以后不管事情变得怎样，我还是会一样地爱他。他不能再坏一点。而我不能再好一点。所以被离弃的永远是我。
如果我是坏人，多么好。
天空说，太复杂了。那好吧。也许我应该直接了当地说，就像你，你觉得我开朗乐观的时候才喜欢我，等到你发现我也有烦恼也会难过的时候就不喜欢我了。男生，我不是神仙姐姐。我不是。
他们应该在那难得的时刻爱上我，可是他们却选择了离开。所以没有人能够恒久地爱我，除非我能够恒久地快乐。
其实我也不是不能够，我只是不想。为什么一定要在我难过的时候离开我呢？为什么一定要在我最快乐的时候才能够爱我呢？
很不幸地我却在某个人最难过最坏最潦倒的时候爱上了他。所以以后不管事情变得怎样，我还是会一样地爱他。他不能再坏一点。而我不能再好一点。所以被离弃的永远是我。
如果我是坏人，多么好。
天空说，太复杂了。那好吧。也许我应该直接了当地说，就像你，你觉得我开朗乐观的时候才喜欢我，等到你发现我也有烦恼也会难过的时候就不喜欢我了。男生，我不是神仙姐姐。我不是。
posted by yee mai at 18:14
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爱一个人如果需要太多理由..太累了..
两个人在一起,开心不就好了吗?
There are many subtlelities that make up "LOVE." It is very possible that when you are "not happy" your behavior send out a signal to men that tell them you are not "interested." Of course that is not your intention, but even the slightest hint that you may not be interested, be it on purpose or by accident can turn a Brave Hero into a Frightened Frog. But do not judge the men for being this way, people are attracted to those who like them. And if they "perceive" that YOU do not like them they live naturally drift away. It is all in perception, try not to show signs of dis-interest. And do not intentionally play hard to get. Men do not care if you appear TOO FORWARD. That term doesn't even appear in the dictionary of someone who is courting you. They would only be too happy that you are acting interested. I have so much to say, but this isn't my blog. Talk to you soon...
两个人在一起开心就好……多像他讲过的话 :)我一直相信。只是不知道为什么，我一恋爱就会变得很讨人厌。即使没有人讨厌我，我讨厌那样的自己。我不想再陷到那样的景况里。所以其实，是我不爱那个不快乐的我。
David...you can write as much as you want, then copy n paste at your blog, hahahhaha, then u'll have a new article liao...anyway...maybe what you said is correct...but...你快乐的时候才想到的那个人不是你真正爱的人，你难过的时候想到的那个人才是你真正爱的人。所以我在你面前表现难过，代表我爱你。Do yo agree?
some people believe (and so do I) that it is important to "Be Your Best" when a relationsip is NEW. Be as attractive as you can be (not just physically), once you are both attracted to each other the next step is to learn to love each other in all circumstances. Like how you said to be loved even when you are not happy. To me things moves in stages, if the "first stage/attraction stage" does not happen there will be no other stages. Jumping the order of things is difficult to accept. It is also difficult because the person woudn't understand why you are behaving in such a way. What you said about him loving you when you are sad will mean he will love you when you are happy is TRUE. But unfortunately most people will not be able to see through that, they will likely just think that you aren't interested.
Get into a relationship with some1 you like, don't make it hard for him or yourself. Perhaps you are afraid you'll get hurt. But thats no excuse not to give it a chance. Have Faith, don't kill a relationship before it starts because God does not test us beyond our abilities.
"你快乐的时候才想到的那个人不是你真正爱的人，你难过的时候想到的那个人才是你真正爱的人"
You are absolutely right!
And tht's what happending always in your life..
To the Anonymous fellow,
Don't you think you are being a little harsh? I don't think you can really expect someone whom doesn't even know you well to think of you when he/she is sad.
We aren't talking about long time friends being attracted to each other here, you, I and everyone knows that most relationships begin from strangers, not friends.
Saying that, asking a stranger to even think about you for one second when he/she is not in the mood is asking for TOO MUCH. If the "modern/educated" concept of LOVE is so demanding it is no surprise that fewer and fewer people are falling in love.
hahaha, Anonymous, don't you want to say something?
and David, ya, fewer and fewer people are falling in love...i am one of them :)
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no you are not, you don't wnat to believe it so don't say it :)
damn, this is becoming like a forum. hahaha
why doesn't my blog get this kind of traffic? *hint hint.
you should put a webcounter here YM, its very easy to do and since you so many "regular readers" can show off bit la. hahaha :D
hahaha, ya man, i oso wanted to say this is becoming like a forum, n i wonder wat u've written n why u deleted it ;p
u know y ur blog dont hv such traffic, coz urs got the mah fan log in thingy mah, hahahhaa, mine dont hv, whoever oso can read. anyway i've posted some comments for u :)
hahaha :)
what i deleted was the same thing as my previous post. I was lagging, i keep pressing then it came out same thing twice :)
wow :) wuya, your blog is real hot! hehehe :> & david is right, u can put the webcouter to show off show off :P sure interesting! hehe :>
We will dare to only show our weakness in front of our loves one. So, i think what you've said is very true.
我在你面前表现难过，代表我爱你。
If a guy don't like your unhappy face, he don't love you much either.~ying tao
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